The centuries have found countless people who said, "Lord, teach us to pray." I am one who needs to be taught, one who needs to learn, one who needs to give it time so there can be the possibility of learning.
Who prays? Everyone. Anyone who asks is praying.
In the Christian prayer, we ask of God. And surely this is central, for what good father does not delight in hearing and meeting the needs of his children? We hear much reminding about the need to praise and give thanks and confess and commune and on and on. All true — I know it by text and by practice. And I also know how prone I am to just asking.
We pray when we have no where else to turn. We pray when we need comfort. We pray about perfunctory things that seem beyond us — like rasing our children. We pray about impossible things — like cancer and death. To learn prayer, though, surely means more. Is asking the entry? I believe it is, for asking is praying is asking.
But no relationship is one dimensional like that. To know God — this universally stated yearning of Christians — can never be reality without prayer that is more than asking. And yet, as I ponder this, I think I see that the asking is the gate to all else.
If we really want an answer, we will wait. We will listen. We will keep asking. We will ask better questions. We will listen some more. And maybe, if we really want to hear badly enough, we will wait and listen and prayer will become communion instead of monologue.
"Lord, we call out to you. Teach us to pray."
Comes the answer I believe, if we will hear: "No better question. Will you wait long enough to let me?"